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Side by Side
New leaders are promoted, elected, or appointed every day. Consider
the first day of five people thrust into leadership positions in a variety
of organizations. Observe how easily Susan, Carl, Robert, Patty, and
Jeffrey fell into using the traditional top-down leadership model.
Susan's Meeting
At her first meeting after being promoted Susan presented a radical,
new proposal to senior management. At the senior management meeting,
Susan, a new human resource vice president, presented her proposal to
improve productivity. As she discussed her ideas, she noticed senior
managers signaling each other with raised eyebrows and other subtle
and not-so-subtle body-language movements. No one asked her any questions
or commented on her proposal. When the meeting broke up, no one talked
to her or made eye contact. Over time she noticed that she was not invited
to any more senior management meetings.
Carl's Goals
After being appointed to head a nonprofit agency, Carl came to his first
board of director's meeting with a list of goals that he wanted the
group to adopt. The board was composed of volunteers from the community.
Carl's board listened quietly to his 30-minute presentation of his list
of goals for the agency. When he asked for comments, no one spoke up.
When he pressured the group to talk, Bob, one of the more experienced
board members, voiced a minor disagreement with the third goal. Carl
then became defensive and emotionally attacked Bob because Bob questioned
him. The group came to Bob's defense and criticized Carl because he
said he wanted to hear the group's thinking. Carl abruptly adjourned
the meeting and vowed to himself to avoid sharing his goals with the
board.
Robert's Memos
On his first day as head of a new marketing and sales group, Robert
sent out long memos to subordinates telling them tasks he wanted them
to complete. Nearly every one of the recipients passively ignored the
memos and direction. The subordinate with the most experience, a creative
first-line supervisor, quickly transferred to another department. Robert
ultimately became discouraged because no one responded to his leadership.
He returned to working on achieving his sales quota and spent the minimum
time helping his salesmen improve their sales results. The work unit
floundered and produced mediocre results.
Patty's Training
Patty, the new church school director, scheduled a voluntary Tuesday
evening training class. She showed up early at her church Tuesday night
for the meeting she scheduled and placed a detailed agenda and comprehensive
budget report on each team member's chair. She waited and waited. No
one showed up. After 45 minutes, she disgustedly threw the neat stacks
of paper in the garbage can. She told herself that this was the last
time she would volunteer to lead a church function.
Jeffrey's Rules
Jeffrey, a new stepfather, listed the rules he expected his three teenage
stepchildren to obey. When Jeffrey presented his list of rules to his
new stepchildren, two of them angrily stomped out of the room. The teenagers
screamed that they never wanted to see him again and they wished he
had never married their mother! Jeffrey slipped into a state of depressed
confusion. These examples of leadership failure are based on true stories
with only the names changed. Each of these five new leaders thought
they would succeed because they did what the old definition says leaders
must do - they tried to influence others to do what they thought was
best. Similar scenes occur in most organizations and families every
day.
Top Down Leadership
Robert, Carl, Susan, Patty, and Jeffrey exemplify the thousands of leaders
who try to lead by influencing others. Leadership as defined by top-down,
one-way influence has the following implications:
- Leaders must push followers;
- Leadership is done to other people; and
- Followers are empty and passive people until a leader provides the
influencing and the thinking for them.
Hundreds of books have been published and thousands of seminars have
been held in vain attempts to address these leadership deficiencies.
Popular book titles include The Leadership Secrets of Attila the Hun
and Cigars, Whiskey, and Winning: Leadership Lessons from General Ulysses
S. Grant. Unfortunately, this approach emphasizes the success of particular
individuals in certain circumstances for specific situations. A leader
needs be more flexible in today's fast-paced world.
Side by Side Leadership
Side by Side Leadership is a new leadership model that produces 30-300%
improvements in performance because it captures the hearts and minds
of everyone in the organization. The key principle of Side by Side Leadership
is that leadership promotes better thinking, greater creativity and
in turn higher productivity when it is two-way. Side by Side uses two
way communication, shared authority and teamwork.
The
Five New Leaders Revisited
Susan, Carl, Robert, Patty, and Jeffrey experienced failure using the
old definition of leadership as one-way influencing or leading. Susan,
Carl, Robert, Patty, and Jeffrey received training in how to lead side
by side to achieve shared goals. Here is how their first few days looked
as a side by side leader.
Susan Leads Organizational Transformation
Susan
was promoted to Vice President of Human Resources for a company that
had been hemorrhaging money for the past two years. She wanted to go
into her first executive staff meeting with the president and his staff
with a proposal for organizational transformation. The proposal would
include examining the company's values, relationships with customers,
a new vision, mission, visionary business goals, strategies, and a corresponding
revamping of the organizational culture and structure. Susan believed
that such a radical top-down transformation would transform the company
from a gradual decline to becoming a potentially elite, best-in-industry
company.
The Side by Side Leadership training convinced Susan that, without several
behind-the-scene meetings, her proposal would be rejected. She decided
to attend her first executive staff meeting and quietly listen. The
meeting started late. She noticed that while everyone else was fairly
complacent about the negative financial results, the Vice President
of Manufacturing, Mike, was upset. After the meeting, Susan asked Mike
to discuss his concerns with her. Susan discovered that Mike felt exactly
as she did. They both knew that a whole set of major changes was needed.
Susan showed Mike her proposal for intensely evaluating and possibly
modifying the company's direction and corresponding business and organizational
strategies. Mike said there was no way the president and his team would
approve such a plan at this time. The other leaders were in denial;
they clung to the fantasy that business would improve on its own. Susan
asked if Mike would consider moving forward and piloting the organizational
transformation plan in his manufacturing division. After thoughtfully
considering the idea, Mike agreed.
Susan and Mike went to the president of the company and first tried
to sell him on implementing the business and organizational transformation
plan for the whole company. He vehemently rejected that proposal. The
president did, however, approve Mike trying the change process in his
organization. By using an external consulting company to speed up the
transformation, Mike's division quickly began reporting dramatic improvements
in business results after only four months. The president asked Susan
and Mike to meet with him privately to talk about the changes. Susan
and Mike were ecstatic because, as they described it, the sources of
the improvements were the ideas of people at all levels of Mike's organization
including the factory workers themselves. The ideas emerged systematically
out of the structured organizational transformation process. The president
asked Susan and Mike to meet individually with each of the other vice
presidents before the next staff meeting to share the results of their
work. The president implemented the structured organizational development
process in spite of a couple of reluctant vice presidents. In two years,
the company became one of the top three in its industry with continual
record profits.
Carl Invigorates a Non-Profit Organization
Carl was hired to invigorate new life into a nonprofit organization
that had existed for seventy years. His board of directors consisted
of 30 volunteers who had never worked together as a team, nor had they
received team skills training. He knew that the group, while well meaning,
often worked at cross purposes. Carl was tempted to call a meeting and
present several of his goals for the organization to implement.
Instead, Carl first met with the professional staff. Together, they
divided the board into three more manageable work groups of 10 people
each. Each group of ten board members participated in eight hours of
Side by Side Leadership training, which included setting individual
team goals. On their own, each of the three teams set specific goals,
which Carl then coordinated through his professional staff. The nonprofit
organization was rejuvenated by the active participation by its board
of directors.
Robert Leads a Sales Team to Success
Robert was promoted to head the sales and marketing department he had
worked in for the past five years. He had helped set the current sales
goals with the other sales team members and the previous department
manager. The team consistently failed to achieve its sales goals, and
Robert's predecessor had left for that reason. Robert's first idea was
to send out a memo to each team member listing the biggest new customers
that the sales team should go after and what tactics to use to win the
customers' business.
With his new concept of Side by Side Leadership, Robert decided to meet
first with one of the most experienced members of his team. Robert asked
Mary what she thought the problems were with the sales performance.
She speculated that the high number of new sales team members and their
lack of training and experience were at the heart of the problem. Robert
asked her if she would help him develop six to eight hours of targeted
training for new sales team members. She enthusiastically agreed. Mary
suggested that they compile a list of the key skills and meet individually
with each member to assess mutually each person's deficient areas. Together
they completed first the assessment and then the training. Within three
months, the sales performance of the group was up 20%.
Patty Uses Side by Side Leadership In a Church
Patty, the new church school director, was full of ideas to make her
church school program effective. There were 12 teachers who provided
classes for 40 children and 30 adults every Sunday morning at 10:00
am. Everyone was a volunteer including herself. Many of the teachers
not only had young families, but they also worked. They were busy people.
Prior to scheduling her first meeting, Patty talked on the telephone
with three of the senior teachers about their suggestions for how to
improve the church school program. Each teacher had two or three good
ideas. Patty asked them when would be the best time to meet together
with all of the teachers.
From those conversations, Patty developed three schedule options: 9:00
a.m. Sunday before church school; 12:00 Sunday after the worship service
(bring a sack lunch); or Tuesday evening at 7:00 p.m. The best time
was the Sunday sack lunch at 12:00. Only nine teachers attended the
scheduled meeting, but all together they identified 15 improvement ideas.
Five of the ideas were implemented immediately. Many of the ideas centered
on increasing the attendance of children and youth. Patty and the teachers
set a goal to increase attendance by 20% in six months. That meant eight
new children or youths had to attend. Towards the end of the meeting,
Patty asked the teachers how interested they were in attending a two-hour
class on new methods of teaching that increased student participation
and learning. Surprisingly enough, everyone wanted to sign up.
Jeffery Tries Side by Side Leadership as a
New Parent
The Side by Side Leadership Model was also helpful in one of life's
greatest challenges, that of being a parent. Instead of laying down
the house rules in the first meeting with his new stepchildren, Jeffrey
individually met with each teenager to plan a mutually agreeable fun
outing. Matthew, the oldest son, asked Jeffrey to go to an automobile
show that would be in town the following weekend. Kimberly, who was
into music, suggested they go to a music store and listen to samples
of new albums and songs. Wendy, the 13-year old, wanted Jeffrey to come
watch her next soccer game.
Jeffrey accompanied each child in the agreed upon activity. In the car
and walking around, he asked each teenager what other interests and
hobbies they had. He carefully listened. He discovered that two of his
stepchildren enjoyed his interests in hiking and being outdoors. The
third child described how he wanted to learn to snow ski, which Jeffrey
also enjoyed doing. Jeffrey discussed with them how he would like to
have a family meeting to plan out the fun activities for the next couple
of months. He also suggested they should talk about what makes a good
family and how members of a family should treat each other for it to
be a happy family. Jeffrey and his new wife, Stephanie, planned the
meeting together.
The meeting was held on a Sunday afternoon. The family listed the possible
fun activities and agreed on and scheduled four outings that they would
do in the next two months. Each person then wrote down three ways that
people in a good family treat each other. The teenagers listed some
behaviors they wanted from each other and their parents. Primary on
the list was a respect for their ideas and their property. Jeffrey used
the idea of respect to move into his main concern: the teenagers not
letting their parents know where they were going. Everyone agreed to
follow the five "House Rules," which included always letting the family
know where they are.
Leadership is facilitating side by side relationships toward
shared goals. It is mutual as opposed to one-way. This model
works for business, nonprofit organizations, government, and all other
organizations. It even works with families.
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Dennis
Romig, Ph.D. Author of the New York Times Best Selling Book, Side
by Side Leadership: Achieving Outstanding Results Together. President
of Performance Resources, Inc., Austin, Texas
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